Believing in the power of love & generosity since 2009

When Mike and Vanessa Hawkins tied the knot on May 14, 2009, in a beautiful ceremony on the San Francisco Waterfront, they never imagined that their vow of love would kickstart a movement in the wedding industry that, years later, would help more than 275 couples experience a dream wedding.

In 2009, while looking for ways to give back to her community, Liz Guthrie, a party and event planner, organized a dream wedding giveaway in San Francisco for couples who couldn’t afford a high-end wedding. Although the giveaway received 350 applications from all over the country, the story of one couple warmed everyone’s heart. 

Enter Vanessa Muza Teskey, a U.S. Air Force officer battling stage IV Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, and her fiancΓ©, Capt. Mike Hawkings, also an Air Force officer. After graduating from the Air Force Academy, the couple met and got engaged in 2008. Vanessa received her cancer diagnosis one day before Mike was deployed to Southwest Asia.

From 11,000 miles apart, the contest gave the couple hope for a brighter future and enough resilience to face Vanessa’s chemotherapy sessions. Vanessa and Mike’s love story ended up winning them a $100,000 high-end wedding package –all of the proceeds were donated by local businesses and wedding industry professionals. 

The Hawkins’ wedding was a huge success and sparked an idea. And in November of 2009, Wish Upon a Wedding was officially born.  

Our Mission

We exist to grant weddings and vow renewals to couples facing terminal illness or life-altering health circumstances. We help couples alleviate the financial burden and time commitment that planning a wedding entails, focusing instead on dealing with their treatments and spending time with their loved ones. It's our goal to provide a day for our couples that is free from the worry of their disease and that is filled with love and light - and one that they did not have to stress about! 

OUR WISHES

275+

Wishes
Granted

300

Wish Goal
for 2024

#1

Nonprofit in the
Wedding Industry

50

State
Participation

500+

Wish Granter Vendors Annually

All of our weddings and vow renewals cover the cost of:

Sunday – Thursday weddings
Guestlist up to 50 people
Wedding Planner
Venue

Catering
Baker
Florist
Beauty services

Photographer
Videographer
DJ or musician
Stationery

Meet Our Board of Directors

  • Danielle McNulty

    PRESIDENT

  • Kimberly Gradisher

    TREASURER

  • Marcy Radcliffe

    SECRETARY

  • ESTHER CARLOS

    DIRECTOR

  • KATE JOHNSON

    DIRECTOR

  • LAUREN RAQUE

    DIRECTOR

  • KENYA CAMPBELL

    DIRECTOR

Meet the Team

  • Lacey Wicksall

  • Megan Biehl

    WISH COORDINATOR

  • Chase Whisenhunt

    FUNDRAISING DIRECTOR

 Get Involved with Wish Upon a Wedding

APPLY FOR A WISH

If you are affected by a terminal illness or life-altering health circumstance, we welcome you to apply for a wish.

GET INVOLVED

Interested in being part of our mission or helping to spread the word about Wish Upon a Wedding? Learn more about various ways to help.